Nobody tells you the quiet part of moving up: you can do impressive things and still feel scared the whole time.
Kayleigh Bateman sits down with former HP executive, tech CEO, TEDx speaker, and author Patty Azzarello to get honest about what it takes to break the glass ceiling without breaking yourself, especially in a male dominated workplace where women are still asked to prove they belong.
We dig into the moments that shape a career, from Patty’s early decision to choose independence, to the surprising leadership advantage of taking a job where you can’t be the deepest expert in the room. Patty explains why “everyone is bluffing” at the executive level, how learning to delegate 100% helped her become a stronger leader, and what real value looks like when your job is to create clarity, set direction, and help your team do work that “blows your mind.”
You’ll also hear practical truth about sexism, imposter syndrome, and being labeled “too nice.” Patty makes the case for kindness plus accountability, psychological safety, and dropping the exhausting need to “act impressive.” Then we get tactical on boundaries, burnout prevention, and ruthless priorities so ambition stays sustainable, not punishing.




